Watching you from the kitchen while I wait for the coffee to finish and I drop into a moment from a year ago.
One year ago I had very little direction, something I wasn’t used to. My future seemed very unclear. The job I had disappeared and I faced a lot of uncertainties. I applied and applied. I was consumed with searching for work. It was the first time in many, many years that I had nowhere to go and no where to be.
You pass by the window where I am sitting and I think about what triggered me to come to this moment and space. It is how I feel and see myself now. And of course the way you see me, the way you love me and the random kiss in line at the store.
One year ago I never thought the life I live now was even possible. I look at my picture and I am not even the same person I was then. I was unhappy and trying to figure it out.
With the reassurance from friends, long time and recent. I picked up and filled my days with work, the gym and what little life I held together. Not really living, but existing.
I know now more than ever that I am a survivor and I have strength that a few never gave me credit for.
There was a particular conversation where I was told, “I promise you something better will be on the other side of this”. Those words will stay with me for the rest of my days and I pass them on when I can.
So the other side of this was certainty, stability, a job I love, a man who I love more and more every day. A quiet, easy balance to life that I have never felt before.
Sometimes we stay up too late and sleep in
And sometimes we talk a lot or not at all, but there is always, always something to say or share
We drive to Boulder City for breakfast and it doesn’t work out
But we are so present, in everything
So when you stuck your head in the back door I had already dropped into the moment of gratitude for the life I have now and the life I have with you.
So this life is a better life than one year ago…
Always remember that whatever struggles you experience in your life something better will be on the other side of them ….